Most of my reading of sisuon happens in the cab. Heavy trucks are kept out of inner Bangkok during the daytime restriction hours, so a large part of my working life consists of waiting: at Laem Chabang for a container to clear, at a depot in Bang Na for the evening window to open. Those hours are quiet and they are mine, and sisuon fills a good number of them.
I have noticed something about that solitary reading which I would like to put to the community. When I read a piece alone, it settles quickly. Within a day I have a firm sense of what it means, and that sense is almost always consistent with what I already believed before I began. Nothing in the cab pushes back. Only when I come here and read the thread do I discover that three or four other people took the same passage in directions I did not consider, and sometimes that they are plainly right.
My handle is not an accident. A tractor-trailer has a region along its left side where a motorcycle can travel for a kilometre without the driver ever knowing it is there. Mirrors are the remedy, and this forum functions as a set of mirrors for me. But anyone who drives knows that a convex mirror also distorts. Objects appear smaller and farther away than they are. I find that the thread does something similar: the most articulate reading tends to become the reading, and the quieter interpretation someone offered in the eighth reply, which may have been closer to the text, recedes.
So I have two questions. First, do others deliberately sit with a writing for some days before reading the discussion, or do you read the thread first? Second, and more honestly: has the discussion here ever made your understanding worse, by replacing a reading you had earned with one you merely adopted? I suspect the answer is yes for most of us, and I am not sure it is a problem, but I would like to hear how others manage the balance.